Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Happy Days Are Here

We just went through a hectic week that was short on time and long on fun. Exactly what we needed to get out of our sedate routine. I wrote the blog many times in my mind, just never got to it in reality. There is so much to tell and am still crunched for time, so let me get to it without preamble.

Bandana mousi, Srinivas mousa (Sachi's aunt and uncle from india) and Mitu's visit started the celebratory tone of the week. There was a lot of eating and socialising, catching up with news about family and retelling of many family tales. Weather joined in the mood and we had many hours of fun out in the yard. Mousa loved taking walks through the trees. Bandana mousi and Sachi spent hours on end talking about old days. This gave Mitu and me time to bond together. I loved having her here with us. Babi (Sachi's brother from Thailand) joined us a day later. His presence sparkled our already shining days. There was more eating and entertaining with some more family tales. I heard some Mahapatra-Bhuyan legends that I had not heard before. It was truly an enjoyable time and a rare treat for us.

Bandana Mousi and family left on Thursday. Next day Naren, Vivek and Bobby were supposed to drive over and join us. Bobby made it OK. Naren and Vivek had to cancel their trip due to floods in Iowa, a state they had to cross to reach Nebraska. Babi got a chance to witness the raw fury of Midwest weather Friday night when we had severe thunderstorms and tornadoes in Lincoln and Omaha. Jyoti and Jeff were planning to come over but decided to stay put. So we had a much smaller get together that turned out to be warm and cozy due to its intimate size. When families are together nothing can dampen the spirit. Next day we went to Omaha to have lunch with Jyoti and Jeff.
This picture was taken in Jyoti and Jeff's backyard. We had nice time exploring their nest. Babi and Bobby felt so comfortable to be with, it was hard to believe they were just visiting. Lunch was full of fun at The Cheesecake Factory. At times we got decidedly rambunctious and had to tip the waiters extra to be allowed back again someday. Sunday came too soon and we saw Babi off. Monday morning Bobby left for Oklahoma with promise to come back. I thought of writing in the blog that night but could not settle down enough to sit in front of the computer.

Few days passed in anticipation of our scheduled visit to Mayo Clinic. Wednesday afternoon we started our drive with promise of good weather. We chose to avoid the flooded plains of South-East Iowa and took a different route through North and Western part of Iowa. The roads took us through some of the most scenic views with large vistas of green carpet and sky that rivalled God's own creation. Seven hours of this soothing balm and we were in Rochester. We thought we had a leisurely drive but we reached the hotel room and crashed. Sachi was out like a bulb. I walked around in the room too tired to do anything and too restless to sleep. Next morning was Sachi's CT scan and blood work. At 2:30 PM we met with the surgeon, Dr. Kasperbauer (who did the surgery on Sachi), and were shown the images of the scan. They were clean. The day brightened up real fast after that. We met with the oncologist, Dr. Garces (radiation) and Dr. Okuno (chemotherapy) next day and were told Sachi is doing fine. He is where they expect him to be at two and a half months post treatment. They recommended he go back to work half time initially and then increase the time. We listened to all their evaluations with gratitude. The day was sunny, the scan was clean, we knew everything was wonderful. We spent the evening watching TV movies and eating in our favourite Indian Restaurant. Next day we came home. Same route, same scenic drive, same seven hours, no crashing with fatigue though. Happiness is very energising.

Jyoti and Jeff sent us beautiful sunset colored roses to celebrate our happy homecoming. We were touched. We had not realised that they too had been waiting so keenly for the good news. Two days later (yesterday) they sent us another bouquet of delicate, fragrant, pink roses. Bemused we opened the card and read 'ITS A GIRL'. Jyoti had an ultra-sound yesterday afternoon and found this out. We are still celebrating this great news of Lakshmi coming into our home. Sachi plans to be all healed up by November so he can enjoy the precious gift in his arms.

Jyoti and Jeff are beaming these days; and it shows. This picture was taken last weekend in their yard. The hammock was a wedding gift from Seema. They love it.

It feels good to share joy with you all.

You were our solace through hard times,

Now you double our pleasure.

Ambi

7 comments:

Unknown said...

Dear Ambi,
You always come with good tidings. And these are not in singles but a'plenty. We had not yet finished Sachi's toast of health, that here comes Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth and prosperity. I had strong premonition that Jyoti's child will be a girl. It has been happening for the past five matrilineal generations. Your mother's mother, your mother, you yourself, Jyoti and now jyoti's child have all been, first born, females. A coincidence but a very strange one. We do not know for how long it has been happening . There is no one to confirm the earlier record. Mathematically there is one chance in 120 for this to have happened so far and one chance in 720 to happen once more in future or if it had so happened in the past. In one of your earlier inputs You mentioned that the proud parents are looking for a name for teir child. Amongst the glitterings of Jyoti, Suraj and Ravi, the name that comes to mind naturally is 'Kiran' Which can also be anglicised as 'Ray' retaining the original meaning. This however is simly one suggestion among many. In this matter, I feel, the primacy 0f final selection should lie with Jeff and Jyoti and their parents.

Love all, Daddy.

Heather A said...

I am so happy to hear that the news from Rochester is good and that Sachi's healing process is right on track! He should have plenty of energy by the time "cuddle time" with your new little granddaughter comes. I am excited to hear that Jeff and Jyoti are having a girl! She is so blessed to have such wonderfully caring and excited grandparents. It is always funny to watch grandparents as they fight for snuggle time with the grandkids -- it cracks me up as I still watch my parents fight over our kids.

I am so glad to hear that the "happy and fun" days are back in your lives. You are truly a wonderful family!
Heather

Unknown said...

As I bowed down to touch your feet and invoke your blessings, I felt a deep sense of proximity to Divinity…. And, as you both took your little brother into your arms to bid farewell, I could not hold back my tears any longer. Waving goodbye to you, I was flooded with a feeling of elation that comes when you return from a temple of worship….
For me, this trip was nothing less than a long awaited pilgrimage….an eagerly anticipated homecoming…..
I had to wait almost till eternity to be blessed with an opportunity to undertake this journey to your doorstep. After spending countless nights without sleep, and braving numerous nightmares without peace, when I arrived at your abode, I knew that the enormous physical distance that yawned between us had at last dissolved, and in its place emerged a bond of love that transcended the conventional dimensions of time, space and words….
Short though my stay in your midst was, so filled it became with golden moments that my heart brimmed with joy and gratitude…..joy because of exclusive time with both of you and your little ones, and gratitude because of His blessings that transformed my dream to walk a few steps with you into a reality.
An added bonus was the quality time spent in the company of Bandana Mausi & family, and Bobby thereafter. The information exchanged and the wisdom gained was heartwarming indeed, which otherwise would have remained a mystery beyond reach due to dearth of such quality encounters during my short annual trips to India. Of the many lessons I learned, one that is contained in the following quotable quote, shall remain close to my heart forever, which I shall always endeavor to follow and uphold during my journey through life:
“Duty with Love is Desirable….
Duty without Love is Deplorable….
Love without Duty is Divine”….
At the cost of repetition, but for the sake of this blog’s ongoing records, I shall reproduce a portion of what I had written to both of you in a card recently:
While Arjun fought the actual battle, his Divine friend was guiding the course of the chariot ----similarly, while Sanabhai is walking on fire and experiencing the actual pangs of disease and recovery, Nuabou is standing by his side every small step of the way, steering him out of the woods with love and care of an order and intensity that maybe read in novels or seen in movies, but rarely, if ever, experienced in real life….
In spite of the daunting mountain of insecurity you both are scaling, the ceaseless gestures of warmth and affection that you have showered on me during my short but rewarding stay at your home, have choked me to silence. I feel bathed in the holy waters of Divinity….
Pranams & Prayers
Babi

PS. And at the end of it all shall be a little Princess who shall walk into the hearts of one and all, ensconce herself in the cushion of love and call the shots for the next generation, while commanding the indulgent attention of her parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts…and….. in short, the whole wide world. Congratulations again Jyoti and Jeff

Sini and Sanju said...

BHAIYAJI DEAR N MY BHABIJI,
Really n truely happy days have come for all
of us...GOD'S GRACE...HE HAS AT LAST SMILED AT US...you can't imagine
how overwhelmed we are, getting this wonderful news from Mayo...my
darling brother is well n is improving everyday...at long last our heart

beats r coming to normal...brother dear..your suffering was ours...your
worry was ours...every moment your thoughts filled our hearts n minds
...when willour dear, dear brother look normal and act normal...see...
thatgreat day has come ...every thing passes..b it good or bad...only
patience is required...which u had bhaiya, we dint...All our prayers
, best wishes n positive thoughts...brought RESULTS.
BHAIYAJI, how handsome, smart n cheerful u look in the
picture...again RED SHIRT...u know it looks good on you, don't you?
your face looks bright, happy n relaxed...your usual self...
I feel so happy....that so many dear ones visited you n you
all had a great time...happiness always brings healing with it...so the
process becomes faster.
Above all this..the greatest news...LAXMI COMING...wow! i feel
so excited...how darling jyoti must be feeling...its so nice to see
both JYOTI N JEFF enjoying n relaxing on the hammock...GOD BLESS ALL THREE OF THEM!
so BHAIYA, WHEN WILL U BE JOINING WORK? BIG NEWS! r u feeling ok?
today i gave u a call..but u did not respond..i will try again...now
your food intake must have increased...wihs u all the best...
MY angel BHABI,
how much relieved u must be feeling, after
returning from MAYO...I CAN WELL IMAGINE...see HOW THE LORD HAS
REWARDED you for all your hard work n selfless care, that u rendered..
IT'S beyond words..I AM not trying to...YOUR LOVE SUPPORT N CARE HAS
BROUGHT WONDERS!AT every step you walked with bhaiya n helped him to
cross the huddle..and he has..all credit goes to you, dear NUABOU
...CONGRATULATIONS! KEEP IT UP!
SO, NANIJI IS GETTING READY I was really overwhelmed
to know about the baby girl...you know how much i love girls...all
waiting eagerly for the day to come...
OK DEARS...GOD BE WITH YOU ALL...my love n prayers with you...
love..sini n sanju

Anonymous said...

Dr.Mahapatra-Glad to hear you are much better!!! Hope to see you again soon. ODAT!!!! John VanHoosen

Unknown said...

Reflections:-

In our misguided pursuit of permanence the torch of spiritual realization fades into a flicker, hardly visible in the distant horizon.....Permanence of material possessions, permanence of relationships, permanence of happiness......all these being just dimensions in our mind, they lead us astray in a path of futile aspirations. Knowing fully well that everything is transitory and is as steadfast as a sand castle that stands tall only till the next wave from the neighboring ocean, we still hanker after things and thoughts, matters and motions, acquisitions and acquaintances, bending backwards in our futile attempts at making them last forever. So lost we all are in the web of insecurity that we grab at every conceivable straw that would allow us a promise of permanence....cling on to it as if our life depended on its survival....and ultimately drown in our own murky mud of meaningless desires, ending yet another precious Gift from above: Life....
Detachment is not lack of attachment. In fact, nothing could be further from the truth! Detachment means the melting of narrow familial barriers and dissolving of limiting notions of relationships, which in turn gives birth to an open embrace of humanity as one brotherhood. Attachment grows intense and love gets refined to an all encompassing umbrella that lends its shade of care on every fellow being in the world. Actions are guided not by expectations, but inspired by a desire for benevolence....Giving is not limited to immediate family or friends, but expanded to the greater picture of mankind. You are lost in an intensity of love that is intoxicating, and the world is slowly transformed from the fantasy of a Prophet to a reality of the billions....
O' God, extend your divine hand and guide us out of this crowd of teeming millions to a place where conflict is overcome by compromise, confrontation is converted to cohesion...where the precious lives of fellow humans are not reduced to a mere number by the mindless violence of deranged fanatics....where peace reigns supreme and love runs deep....where service and sacrifice are the lifelong companions of progress and prosperity.
Appeals & Prayers
Babi

Amy said...

Congratulations on the great news Sachi and family. I sure hope you can get back to the Wednesday meeting soon. I sure do miss your great wisdom and smile!

Congratulations on finding out your going to have Granddaughter! Those girls are awesome!

Take care and happy 4th of July!
Amy