Monday, May 5, 2008

Piece Of Cake

Yesterday was a big day. Definitely a red letter day. After many days of being home-bound the boys convinced Baba on friday that he was ready for the Mahapatra family Movie Night. We went to see Iron Man. It was a really good experience. Many of Suraj & Ravi's friends (the crowd was mostly young kids) came over to shake hands with Sachi and wish him luck. I thought this evening would be the highlight of the week; But on sunday, that is yesterday, we crossed another long awaited milestone that dwarfed the happiness of the movie night.
Ravi's college was honoring the track team with a banquet at the Embassy Suites. Sachi decided we should attend this. We got all dressed up, even Ravi (and I did not have to bribe him). Ravi lettered (which in America means excelled) in track and received the honor along with many others. We were seated at a table with a senior student and his family. The grandfather turned out to be a client of NHI and had been operated for by-pass surgery by Sachi's partner (Dr. Hedderich). They were a friendly group and we were enjoying the evening. The table was laden with all sorts of food; Chicken, pasta in alfredo sauce, breads, desserts and drinks. We were all enjoying the meal. Sachi seemed to be enjoying the conversation. Then unexpectedly he reached over and made a cup of coffee for himself. I stopped eating. He gingerly took one sip, then another. No coughing, no grimace, no choking. We both looked at each other with a pleased smile in our eyes. I wanted to stand up and hand him a certificate of achievement too. He followed the few sips of coffee with a spoon of cheese cake and finished the night with a scoop of mango ice cream at home. Today he stuck to the tube feed though. Tomorrow he is scheduled for the swallow test. I am sure he will do OK on it.
I have been very busy planting the annuals in the front yard. I gave Jyoti and Jeff two pots (pink Petunias and multicolored Gerber daisies) that in a month should be full of flowers. Jeff is the gardner in their house. He is planning some elaborate projects for their landscaping this year. Today it was 81*F. Soon we will be complaining of hot weather. Ravi, due to the athletics practice of many hours everyday, already has a mid-summer's tan. Few more weeks and he will match Barrack Obama, whom he plans to vote to power this election. He is growing a beard for a Mexican festival and has promised to shave on tuesday. He had shaved his head to empathise with Baba. Since Sachi (against all odds) never lost his hair, poor Ravi is waiting for his to grow.
Jyoti and Jeff are coming over for two days tomorrow. Maybe we will be able to celebrate Sachi's re-introduction to food. He is doing quite good with daily activities. I have not heard him complain of exhaustion after bath lately. He has also been paying some bills and sorting out the medical insurance papers. It is nice to have him moving around in the house all day; occasionally we even manage to annoy each other.
We are rejoicing time spent together.
I hope your life is as full as ours seems to be to us. . . . . Ambi.

7 comments:

Unknown said...

Dear Bada dada,

This really calls for a celebration!! I am so glad to hear about your progress - I bet you are forging ahead at a much faster pace than the doctors must have anticipated!

You & Khudi & the kids have been absolutely exemplary in the way you have and still are, constantly doing better than your best - every step of the way. We look up to you all. When faced with similar challenges, if I can muster up even an iota of the courage and fortitude that you all have shown, I will consider myself blessed. I truly mean that.

I am praying that your swallow study today shows that you are back to handling all consistencies normally. All the best, Bada dada.

Love & prayers,
Pinky & Sushmit

Leema and Achintya said...

Dearest Sati Mamu & Ambi Main,

Pranam.Sorry was not able to write to you both for over a week now..though have been reading all your posts everyday..as was busy at home most of last week with Achintya on leave for a couple of days and then I was a bit under the weather over the weekend..still recovering from the cold.

Main..Thanks for all the beautiful pictures of Sati Mamu, Ravi and the beautiful flowers in your garden..and thanks for your detailed, informative and beautiful update of Sati Mamu's recovery and happenings at the Mahapatra home..Main I can't begin to express how happy and thrilled we both are to know that Sati Mamu has started going out to the movies and is able to eat and drink again without any pain and difficulty..We both are pretty sure and positive that he will pass the swallow test today without any problem and you will be able to celebrate his re-introduction to food tonight as scheduled.

Sati Mamu..Congratulations on taking your first sip of coffee, a spoon of cheese cake and a scoop of your favorite mango ice cream after six weeks of tube feed..We both wish you all the very best for your swallow test today..we both hope and pray to God that you pass the test with flying colours..You already look so fresh and handsome after gaining 10 pounds..in the blue suit..We are sure with you starting to eat orally and with the diminishing effects of chemo and radiation you will gain the balance 10-15pounds in on time..giving Jeff, Suraj and Ravi a tough competition. :)

Ravi..Congratulations to you too on receiving the honor for excelling in track..It was very touching to know that you had shaved off your head to empathize with Sati Mamu..you look quite handsome with the short crop too! :)

Hope you all rejoice and enjoy your time spent together..as you all truly deserve it.

Wish you all a very happy, healthy and enjoyable summer!

Love always,
Leema & Achintya

Pusalkars said...

Dear Ambi main and Sati mamu,

This is wonderful news!

While the battle may not have been a piece of cake but victory can certainly be celebrated with a slice of it.

Needless to say we are very proud of the way you both (especially you, main, with you wonderful words on the pages of this blog) have given us all solace and kept us optimistic all through this journey.

Here's to coffee & cake (strong & sweet)..... just like you both have always been.

Love and regards,

Seema & Sandeep

v(ivek) said...

coffee, cheese cake, and mango ice cream! truly a breakfast of champions or... night cap. either way, i'm glad to hear it :)

life is all about the trials and tribulations. when you get hit, how do you face it? take the hit, and bounce right on back or sit there cowering in pain, unable to lift yourself up fearing what might hit you again? NO! well at least in your case.

anyhow, i'm just leaving work. this post made my day :) take care of yourself and please pace yourself. we mahapatras have a tendency to go overboard at times (speaking from my own life experiences!!!) but that doesn't mean your daily routine shouldn't include rabidi, kheer, gulab jamuns, and ice cream ;)

lots of love,
pranams,

vivek

p.s. i'll post the walk day email in a few - i keep meaning to update you on how the march for babies went this year. thanks for the donation! (got the check yesterday)

Sini and Sanju said...

MY darling Sanabhai n my Angel Nuabou,
I feel so so happy n excited
that i fail to understand how to put my thoughts into words...after
sooooooooo many days i am able to read the blogs n see the beautiful
pictures of Bhaiyaji, Ravi, Jeff etc....but where is my darling Bhabi...
who is behind all this...whatever is happening is because of you n you alone...you r really a darling ANGEL from

heaven...have come to love, care n serve ,my brother..ur hubby...and
bring him back to normalcy...which u r successfully doing...hats off to u , my dearbhabi...
OH! bhaiya...your sipping coffee n licking icecream, has
given us soooo much joy n relief..u cant imagine...how much we r celebrating your this progress...both in heart n mind.. is
beyond imagination...DEAR brother how much pain u have undergone...silently, strongly n confidently...Now that
all this is slowly coming to an end...i can write this..Not a 'ooff'
from your side...YOU r the real TARZAN, IN THE TRUE sense...not only physically, but
mentally, emmotionally n spiritually too. HOW U HAVE ENDURED WIth closed
lips.When i think of ur pain ,my heart aches, tears flow from my eyes
n prayers from my lips...'THAKURJI, YOU HAVE GIVEN ENOUGH PAIN TO MY
DEAR BROTHER...who has never ever complained to you...'AB TO DAYA KARO'...
HE HAS AT LAST ANSWERED TO OUR PRAYERS...we r soooo happy.
Sudhabhai n myself talk for hours everyday abt you n ur progress
.The day we came to know abt your food intake through ur mouth, our joys
knew no bounds.THE ALMIGHTY WAS HARSH AT FIRST but now HE IS KIND N SWEET
TO ALL OF US.HE THOUGHT ' MY DEAR CHILDREN HAVE SUFFERED A LOT ...NOW ITS HIGH TIME... PEACE N
HAPPINESS SHOULD BE SHOWERED ON THEM...AND HE DID IT....
SEE bhaiya, good news have started coming to u one after the other...first ur swallow test
came out fine.NOW slowly u will get back the taste in ur mouth...
the second good news is the greatest n happiest one...'JYOTI IS EXPECTING'
WHAT A WONDERFUL NEWS... we all r so thrilled...really INTEREST IS ALWAYS DEARER THAN THE PRINCIPAL
GOD BLESS ALL THREE OF THEM.....
HAVE written a lot ...more next time...all my love n best wishes to u both
love sini n sanju


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Pam Kittelson said...

I am so happy to Dr Mahaptra gaining strenth everyday. I am employee at Nebraska Heart Hospital and have seen Dr. once in the office. He is a very kind and gentle person. We all enjoy reading the blog and keeping up on his progress. You have a very lovely family that has helped you through this very trying time. Keep up the good work.
Pam

Unknown said...

respected Satimamu and Ambimain,
first and foremost we'd like to take this oppurtunity to thank you sincerely for having sent us first our photographs and then even in the midst of such trying times,for having taken the time out to send us such a lovely anniverssary card.we've been looking at all the messages everybody has been sending you.mom has also been constantly keeping us informed about the developements.we really are happy with the way things are progressing.needless to say that you both have really stood up very well in the most trying of times and your love and concern for each other has come shining through.we remember you in our prayers everyday and hope that you get well as soon as possible.we really look up at both of you.we'll constantly be praying for your well being and hoping to hear from you soon.
regards:gitu & jeet